You`re not going to be able to control everything and everybody — so you may as well stop trying. There is, however, much that you can direct. Perhaps over the next few days you need to concentrate on the differences between these two very different sets of circumstances. While the distinction may not always be easy to make, you`ll be glad you put in the extra effort once you do make it. This isn`t the time to be lazy or to take things for granted. It`s time for wisdom and discernment.